Atlasrambled, 40

Prevented by my father's death from attending college, I educated myself and was admitted to the New York Bar in 1859. I held a number of political posts, including two non-consecutive terms as President of the United States, becoming the only American chief executive to do so.
I was also the first Democratic president elected after the Civil War. A batchelor when elected, I married during my term, becoming the only president married in the White House. And, I was the first president to be photographed by a motion picture camera.
Oh no, wait...that was Grover Cleveland's life, not mine...damn.
Uh, I'm Dave and I'm looking for someone who's into at least some of the stuff/music I'm into, and isn't looking for anything too serious. Please have a brain in your head that you're accustomed to using, and a sense of humor to match. The artsier the better.